I have acted as what you have told me. I waited for him to wake up just now (3.15am) and tell him "I cannot live in a marriage where my husband is seeing another woman." I have added alot of my sincere thoughts to him too. "I don't want to share my husband with another person, I cannot go any further than that and the family is willing to walk through this hurdle with you". He really listens this time, no sign of frustration though he is rushing to work. I just spent 10 mins to tell him of my limit and the decision lies with him whether he wants the family or the OP. He was quietly sitting while I finished what I need to say and move away. I started to pray so hard that he will choose the family.
He came over to me and we hug each other, never have one so real and I told him I am really in pain and suffering. He cried and holding me. I hold him so tight that I really don't wish he will choose the OP. He insisted me to go to sleep and everything will be fine when I wake up. At this point, though I should not believe what he say, I really can feel that he is sincere to work things out. I really want to pray to God for giving me this strength to tell him and courage to face his choice if he really choose to leave. I told him to tell me his decision tonight and I will prepare for the worst and continue to pray to God for his love for the family.
I am not sure how well this will go on but just for that moments, I can see that he really know the pain I am going through. I just hope and pray to God that H wil really wakes up and come back for good.
I hope I am heading towards a positive and favourable situation. And we are able to make to a stronger marriage and family. Pls advise what you think will be his choice....
