Don't feel bad. It is an extremely RARE and short occasion when me and W do something together with our kids. I mean it is easily months in between. I had the benefit of D11 suggesting to W that we spend holidays as a family and W wasn't going to say no to the entire thing to D11 and D7 sitting right there with us. I doubt it had much to do with me. I would hope that some of it had to do with me.
I would extend the invite for the holidays and then let it be if you don't hear anything.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...