Don't worry at this point about distance. I live 5 miles from my wife and I didn't see her for 4 months. I didn't hear her voice for almost the same amount of time. We went over a month with absolutely no contact.
Just have faith that the time will come for your H to see your changes.
Like many have already told you, don't change to get your H back. Change because you feel you can and want to be a better Mom, daughter, wife, co-worker, friend, person that you are happy with.
