My sincere apologies if I did confused anyone and my sincere apologies to Katie for using your thread for reply.
I did have a new thread under "will my marriage work out" and "Urgent help needed" but didnt get any clear direction. I read Katie's thread and is quite the same I facing now. Your replied indeed helps me alot and I have in acted just as I was told. I will open a new thread under ""I cannot live in a marriage where my husband is seeing another woman."