Originally Posted By: Coach
love unconditionally but have boundaries on behavior that is unacceptable to you. Even God gave out boundaries.


Coach...Apparently I am confusing love with his behavior...Until you pointed this out, I just figured it was part of loving unconditionally - The good as well as the bad...Now I need to figure out how to honor myself...

I will be completely honest...
I don't do anything without first wondering how he may react to it - If he will get mad at an action he perceives as a threat? If he won't speak to me for a few days because our last conversation somthing was said in a tone he didn't appreciate etc...Please tell me how to get over that?

I thought by now I would be past this however I still keep doing it no matter how many times I tell myself to stop - I shouldn't even care at this point right now.


May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~