W, I understand you were unhappy in our M, that you felt I was not contributing to it, that you were no longer in love with me. I am sure that was a lonely, frustrating place to be. I would not want to be in that situation either.
Just an observation from your last post......it sounds as though you now find yourself in the same situation your W said she was in before the bomb. Now that you understand how she felt, this may give you more compassion for how she felt????
Your revised approach sounds better, more productive to my woman's sensibilities.
