wdid - that is great. I read your other thread update, too.
You know what's funny? Nearly everyone (that I know of, on this board) who finally just says directly and honestly what they've been thinking, get results from their partner. Usually that full-on honesty will shake your spouse up, and then you will find out that THEY actualy want the SAME THING that YOU want! Funny how that goes, isn't it?
