Welcome to the boards. Sorry you found yourself here.

I would start by reading The Divorce Remedy; it's something you can do while not at your computer.

I'm sure other veterans of the boards will be by with good solid advice as well.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."