I would preface it with validating her feelings, issues and threat. Does two things shows she haven't discounted her in your thinking and shows her what validating is.

Tweak: Offer solutions and input from her on how to go forward.

Make sure you are detached from the outcome. I would take more input from others, get both M & F perspectives.

Cheers

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.