I was just saying (undoubtedly poorly so) that I would not worry about what your ex thinks about you being single or not. She's going to think what she wants to anyway, right? And I certainly would not allow what she might think cause me to influence my decision to be single or not.
But if her thoughts and feelings (and biases) about you no longer sway you, then let it be so.
As for God, we all must seek our way, hopefully with a healthy measure of fear and trembling.
