I've read the whole sitch - what a rollercoaster! It seems like he is making some process in his desire to get some help and read DB. I hope he follows thru this time. My H has a hard time following thru on things too. I've heard his "I'm ready to turn my life around" many times but with no actions or results!
Interestingly enough, on the whole "mid-life crisis" thing, I've heard a lot of my friends talk about a "quarter-life crisis" - maybe just a cop out, but it seems like a lot of our men here in their late 20's are going thru some kind of crisis, since they are not where they expected themselves to be in their relationships, careers, etc by this point in their lives.
Either way, like you said, S is definitely the most important thing in the world. I know it will take a lot of strength to following thru with the ground rules, but whenever you feel weak, just think about your S. As hard as this whole Dbing has been, I am able to continue and draw my strength from knowing that I am doing everything possible to give my S a better life. I just wish they didn't have to go thru this. =(
Yes. Definitely, get some good sleep! Good luck! =)
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
