I would really like to have these emails and phone calls stop. I was wondering if I should send another Plan B letter expressing this and I am going to continue the dark. This would be my first break from it in a month. As she needs to stop contacting me and my mom. She needs to go live this life she has choosen. I do not want to be dragged into that life. Nor should my Mom and dad. She is breaking a boundry I set up in the orginal plan b letter. Which was no contact unless it is life/death all else can go through the IM. I need to reinforce that boundry. This is really affecting my Mom's stress levels. Its an item that WAS and Mom worked on over the years during their very close relationship. And right now WAS has forgotten this.

Opinions please.


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