CTH,
He never left the house. Was very done with me though. We financially could not afford a separation and he wanted to be full time with the kids. He actually was hoping that I would eventually leave. Asked for me to on several occasions. Let me know often how he "hated me" and felt nothing for me.
Being in the same house helped a lot towards reconciliation. He knows my stance though. I will not live with it again. If he decides to "end it" with me again I am going to file. Enough is enough. I put in way too much effort and suffered way too much upset to deal with this again.


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)