Cutter- thinking you are really doing well DB wise. Not sure what her motive is for trying to maintain contact- I'm guessing selfish reasons (likes that you still pine for her, keeping you as a backup plan) or maybe she is having second thoughts? IDK, I'd leave it up to the experts on this site for their input. I'm not an expert in the WAS mindset.


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)