I was catching up on your sitch. It is great news that you will be spending the holidays with W and girls. I don't know what to do. I asked H to D13 birthday party and he never showed. I didn't tell her I was inviting him though. This way she wouldn't be disappointed if he didn't. I was so angry, so I know how the anger thing goes but I didn't respond to his not showing.
I don't know what to do for the holidays. Do I invite him or no? So confused now. I think we should do what you and your W are doing and spending it as a family but I don't know what to think as far as my sitch. What do you think? I don't know if I should ask now or just wait. We are talking civil now when we have contact.
