My two cents is, whatever you decide to do on this particular matter, beware of getting into/back into a pattern where you're afraid to bring up possibly-contentious subjects because "things are going so well". Tiptoeing around each other isn't intimacy (and for my money, isn't a marriage either).
SO TRUE!!! Especially for us enmeshed, co-dependent, "Mr. Nice Guy" non-confrontational types!
