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Thanks dday. I need to re-read the "act as if" section of DR.

Back to the day-to-day. Yesterday was uneventful. I worked a little late. W actually called me to ask if she & our S should have dinner themselves or wait for me. Then she texted me a little while later to remind me about my doctor's appt this morning. I'm doing very well at not contacting her during the day...no emails, texts, etc.

I came home with just enough time to eat dinner before I was right back out the door to play basketball w/ friends. W took our S to her mother's house while I was out. She & I barely saw each other...no S discussion.

Hopefully today will go just as smoothly.


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Just had my first follow-up appt with my doctor since putting me on Zoloft 2 weeks ago. The meds seem to be working. My mind isn't "spinning" nearly as much as it was a week or so ago.
Only negative is that I lost 7 more LBS since my last appt 13 days ago.


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Ehh, the infidelity diet, you have a ways to go before it levels out.


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OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
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Quit the healthy stuff for a while and look for calories, I lived on chocolate shakes and fries with cheese dipping sauce for quite a while.

By the way, I lost about 20 lbs and started to work out, and that was the first thing she noticed, and your waw will also.

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W taking the day off work on Friday to clean her apt & do some furniture shopping. There are certain moments when my sitch hits me...and this is one of them.

Looks like she'll be moved out just in time for my birthday (Nov 1). What a wonderful b-day present...loneliness.

Then comes our anniversary on Dec 1 and the holidays shortly after that. This is going to be rough.

I'm going to "act as if" whenever she's around...but it will be just that...an act.


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Originally Posted By: etrain
What a wonderful b-day present...loneliness.


BAH HUM BUG!

Quick thinking like this. pronto. Think Birthday Beers.

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Good call, McQ. I need an occasional kick in the pants so I don't fall into the pattern of feeling sorry for myself.


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Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
Think Birthday Beers.


Eh heh,

And...

wet t-shirt contests
pillow fights
jello wrestling

And when THOSE don't come to frutition, you can be bumbed about them. grin


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It will be just an act at first, but hey it then turns into an actual part of your life.

Fake it until you make it!

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quick. duh. i meant QUIT.

Originally Posted By: dburt
It will be just an act at first, but hey it then turns into an actual part of your life.

Burt


man i wish wet t-shirt contests were a regular part of my life.

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