Hey, Dday, I understand where you're coming from on that, as I have let myself think along those lines too. But then I have since decided to refuse to lead my life such that I either do or not do some action based on what I think my ex might think about it. I have already allowed too much of my life to be dominated by xW and her insanely selfish whims -- I refuse to give her any more of it. She abrogated her privilege to directly influence my life when she decided to end our M. No, I will make my own judgments and steer the course of my actions based on my own convictions, as given to me in my relationship with God.
I advise you to do the same.
Ehhh, I'm lost in that one NCB? I'm not letting XW influence me was the point I was making. But, she will feel in her mind I'm stuck on her, hence why I'm single. Better?
As for God, well, I'm respectful of others in their threads on the regard, but in my own, He and I have some issues to hammer out when he's not busy, so until then, to each their own.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
