Only problem is, I know me staying single is only an ego boost to XW for her just to think that I'm not because her reasoning would be becasue I'm still wrapped up in her. Not. I am wrapped up in wht I lost with her, but not her.
Hey, Dday, I understand where you're coming from on that, as I have let myself think along those lines too. But then I have since decided to refuse to lead my life such that I either do or not do some action based on what I think my ex might think about it. I have already allowed too much of my life to be dominated by xW and her insanely selfish whims -- I refuse to give her any more of it. She abrogated her privilege to directly influence my life when she decided to end our M. No, I will make my own judgments and steer the course of my actions based on my own convictions, as given to me in my relationship with God.
