Welcome to the boards. As someone else said to me, "Sorry you find yourself here, but it's a good place."
Originally Posted By: Katie
Can I ask you what kind of 180's you would recommend me to do?
The trick to 180's and GAL is that they have to be something that you want to do for yourself.
Is there some hobby or interest you've wanted to pursue? * Dancing lessons * Cooking classes * Attending church (more) regularly * Scrapbooking * Photography classes * Get a gym membership
Originally Posted By: Katie
Also I have text her last Friday and asked her about this and she said she was confused [...] I have no idea what to do.
Coach did a great post describing how to set boundaries.
The OW is not your problem; at some point, you will have to make your husband realize that he either gets her, or he gets you.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
