1. She sent a txt to me yesterday asking why I was ugly to her for not speaking with her - followed by I guess I understand. (I did not respond)
***Puppy: GOOD!***
2. She called the children prior to her "covert" concert to say goodnight to the boys. When I saw the caller ID, I just gave it to the boys. ***PUPPY: Excellent!***
3. This morning she sent a txt regarding renting our condo and asking me to make sure it was clean. I did respond - with "k" a little knock on the way she has been speaking to me.
***PUPPY: Perfect!***
4. She then followed that up with two back to back IMs. "Well I guess we are not speaking now?" and then the second" "I am stil the same person that you knew 20 years ago. I am here when you are ready to talk. I am so sorry I hurt you, truly." I did not respond.
***PUPPY: I actually WOULD have responded here, for two reasons. One, to contrast with, and let her know that, you got the first two and just chose not to respond. And secondly, so you could say "I'm actually doing pretty good, considering all that's happened!" or "Surprisingly, I'm feeling pretty good!"***
All, what do I expect next? You all have been spot on.
***PUPPY: fwiw, she will continue to pursue, likely alternating tactics between syrupy-sweet/nice and holy-water-poured-on-a-witch/nasty. But why do you care? This is about YOU now -- GAL!***
I think everyone realizes that I have myself in a situation with this birds nesting that is not going to go away immediately. It has some current implications which are going to make the next 4 days challenging, but NOT overcomable (did I make up that word?)
Over the next 4 days we will both be in the house because she rented my condo (which is ok $$$.) I have plans to go out Friday, I am going to dress up and then not tell her what I am doing. Probably hit a movie, but thats ok. Sat I will not see her all day, Sunday, we will attend church together.
***PUPPY: Perfect.***
Thoughts and suggestions on how to navigate this - with out commenting on the obvious need to change the current living situation?
