Newbie here and need HELP!!!!

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Hi,
He told me that they have a lot in common and she is fun to be with. She likes the same music, their personalities are the same...

My W said the same thing about the OM she is having an A with. It's the newness of their relationship talking.

ShockedOne nailed it...you can't even begin to work on your R until the OW is completely out of the picture.

Good luck, Katie.