Problems after the affair...Rebuilding

[whatdidido]

It's easier to give advise than follow it yourself isn't it?

Yep, and it confirmed that I really need to continue to seek advice from you guys. The "old way" didn't work for me so in order to get a "new way" I need to seek new information and do new things.

Thanks, Hope.

Thanks, Karen. I think you are right that I need to stop trying to protect my h from things. It is the communication about the "tough stuff" that will get us going I think. We communicate great about the other stuff.