I have a ton of resentment built up from her actions from this past year. I just want a wife that WANTS me, loves me, and is my partner in life. I don't want her to be with me out of obligation.
Hi EB. This is bad. I am not saying that it isn't normal or isn't unwarranted, but it is bad for you and your relationship with your W. You need to find a way to get this anger, hurt, & resentment out in a healthy manner. I struggle with this too. For me, talking it over with a friend, excercise (especially stuff with physical contact), and praying help.
As for the depression, she doesn't understand it and projects it onto the people that are closest to her (unfortunately, that is you). I think you feel that you need to fix it; you don't. This is her issue. I would suggest more GAL'ing. However, you don't need to be distant. This is very hard balance to obtain. Have you read the thread on detachment? It is helpful in this concept.
