Hoping WAW will someday see through the fog....

[shellshockedga]

Well, made it through the past 24 hours. No talking to her. Interesting thing happened. (per script)

1. She sent a txt to me yesterday asking why I was ugly to her for not speaking with her - followed by I guess I understand.
(I did not respond)

2. She called the children prior to her "covert" concert to say goodnight to the boys. When I saw the caller ID, I just gave it to the boys.

3. This morning she sent a txt regarding renting our condo and asking me to make sure it was clean. I did respond - with "k" a little knock on the way she has been speaking to me.

4. She then followed that up with two back to back IMs. "Well I guess we are not speaking now?" and then the second" "I am stil the same person that you knew 20 years ago. I am here when you are ready to talk. I am so sorry I hurt you, truly." I did not respond.

All, what do I expect next? You all have been spot on.

I think everyone realizes that I have myself in a situation with this birds nesting that is not going to go away immediately. It has some current implications which are going to make the next 4 days challenging, but NOT overcomable (did I make up that word?)

Over the next 4 days we will both be in the house because she rented my condo (which is ok $$$.) I have plans to go out Friday, I am going to dress up and then not tell her what I am doing. Probably hit a movie, but thats ok. Sat I will not see her all day, Sunday, we will attend church together. Thoughts and suggestions on how to navigate this - with out commenting on the obvious need to change the current living situation?

Thanks to all.