Hence I believe XW stuck her self in the situation with yet another lie and requested the school not contact me anymore. Fits the bill, but why then text me when you're too god blasted lazy to handle things as the parent you claim YOU ARE?
So what are you going to do about that? I think you would tell me to jump on that right away. I do wonder if they still tend to look to the moms for stuff like that, I know NC has had that experience, and when I told the teachers I wasn't getting the info (always sent home Mondays) they seem very nice about copying it to me. I think it should be that way with both parents of course!
Bravo on your conversation with your kids. It sounds like your XW has recruited them as her spies? Can you talk to them about that somehow?
I have looked at some of the online dating sites to see what's out there, and most of them look nutty there. Work out every day! (btdt), and have weird requirements, like 20 items long for what they can or can't tolerate, and some of the pictures look suspiciously like mug shots.
Your therapist sounds good, intuitive and all. Does she do solution-oriented stuff like we do here at all? Still think sometimes it's good to just do it, rather than just talk about it all the time. Although I know the talking is good too, to get all that stuff out. So good that you are going! I did that for about a year and I think it helped me for sure.
I do wonder if they still tend to look to the moms for stuff like that, I know NC has had that experience, and when I told the teachers I wasn't getting the info (always sent home Mondays) they seem very nice about copying it to me. I think it should be that way with both parents of course! 
