M: "I need to ask. Is OM respecting your wishes?" W: "No. Not really. He had K contact me and ask for a book back I had borrowed. He said he wanted to meet for 'closure'. At first I agreed, but then realized it was a bad idea and e-mailed him that it was best if we did not see each other." M: "Is it harasment?" W: "No. He is just hurting. Why do you ask?" M: "I was thinking and its just that the 'I hate you statement' is concerning." W: "I think he was just angry." M: "Well. I know you know what is best." ...
I found this conversation uncomfortable. I think it was more uncomfortable for me than her. Anyway, I think she has a good guage on it and trust she will let me know if she thinks it is getting out of hand.