I did ask W about OM last night.

M: "I need to ask. Is OM respecting your wishes?"
W: "No. Not really. He had K contact me and ask for a book back I had borrowed. He said he wanted to meet for 'closure'. At first I agreed, but then realized it was a bad idea and e-mailed him that it was best if we did not see each other."
M: "Is it harasment?"
W: "No. He is just hurting. Why do you ask?"
M: "I was thinking and its just that the 'I hate you statement' is concerning."
W: "I think he was just angry."
M: "Well. I know you know what is best."
...

I found this conversation uncomfortable. I think it was more uncomfortable for me than her. Anyway, I think she has a good guage on it and trust she will let me know if she thinks it is getting out of hand.


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1