BJ, thanks again for your comments on my sitch.

I swear I hope to someday get to meet some of you people in person. I would count that as one of the great blessings in my life.

I do feel I am detaching now a bit better. I actually have things I am looking forward to doing now going forward. I have lots to do, and been busy so that may be 'hiding' some of my feelings a bit, but that is not a bad thing either, I think.

Just this morning getting up for work later than I have in 9 years, and cutting my commute down to half what it used to be was a positive move. I'll take those little positives right now, and hope to build them into bigger ones as I progress.


M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."