I did go on to say that there are reasons that he is stopping himself and I want more than once a week, although that is a good way to start. I said how I'd like him to get some sex therapy as needed because I can't live like before. He seemed open to it.
DOH!
That could have been done with out, wrong time.
I was gonna say the same thing. Bad timing, and you don't want to come across as trying to "fix him." You want it to be an "us" thing.