You never answered how your daughter is holding up? For a girl not to want a R with her mother could be very damaging. Not that she is not justified for her feelings.
She is doing as well as can be expected. She is trying out for basketball right now and is very busy with her schoolwork. She is just ready for it to be over either way. She doesn't like drama. She did make a comment the other day that she thought that me and her mom were a mess without each other. I laughed. My goal has been to keep her focused on other things and it seems to be working well for the most part. She did spend the weekend with her mother but the priorites are still messed up. She asked her mother if she would take her to the library and she said no but they went to a movie later? So, schoolwork is not a priority but entertainment is.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!