Great!?! when you do, let me and the rest know what your thinking.
This is really sad. With all the crap you are going through. All the manipulation, guilt, ABUSE all your C could talk about was Love Languages!?! Was he holding a "marriage counseling for dummies book!?!" Seriously, either you are seriously downplaying the severity of this NUT for YOU to your C or he is LOST.
It's time you stand up for what you believe in!!! Next, C session when your C starts in about this "light" crap you should respectfully interupt and say "hey no disrespect but im dealing with some REAL issues here. NO Offense but Im going to walk if we dont start discussing these CRITCAL ISSUES LIKE ABUSE, CONTROL, RESPECT... Time to set your Boundaries. Unfortunately, I doubt your Hubby will take you seriously. It will probably just turn him on by triggering the "Predator" inside of him that likes to dominate and make submissive (Hence any "man" that enjoys seeing his W being screwed by other guys. Makes me sick...)
We are all just trying to help you do what's best for you and your kids. Living with this narscisstic, abusive, jerk is NOT it.
I really hope when the time comes for him to choose between you and being selfish that he chooses YOU and the FAMILY. But, that time will only come when you have STOOD UP for yourself and tell him what you REALLY NEED and WANT.
Also, I agree with the moderator about calling the DB line if you can afford it. I think I have one session left that I never used that I would be happy to give you if they would allow it. I think it's worth $100 or so.
