Great, she called my mobile and left a very long voice mail about how she knows she has done wrong and if I care about her I will take this other woman off my FB account as a gesture of showing that I want things to work out. She said again that she doesn't think she can get past this. She asked if I would please take her off. So, still trying to control in some capactiy or another.

Something I failed to mention from our previous conversation is that I told her she wasn't going to control me or give me ultimatums anymore and that she was the one who told me to get friends. I told her that I thought it was BS that she didn't like the freinds that I had chosen and that I thought it was further BS that just because she has gone outside the marriage and done bad things that she should automatically assume that I have done so as well. She maintains that because we spoke on the phone for more than 2 hours on time that there is more to the friendship. I said, once again, just because you did it doesn't mean that I have. Reminds me of a line in Pirates of the Caribbean, "Of the two of us, only one of us is a mutineer, so, we will taking my word, the one who is not. Replace mutineer with adulterer(not sure if its spelled correctly, but you get the picture).

So, what now? I really don't feel like playing this game.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!