Is this the end of my marriage?

[P17]

I'd say if I can see anything so far I'd say that the W is in a huff because I didn't let her come 'talk' last Monday and / or I told her I was going to start dating again last Tuesday.

I think her huff may be because my plate wasn't available to spin when she tried (I was busy) and then found out that I was going to take my plate away completely (I was going to date again).

I'm not mind reading or analysing, just observing the change in her behaviour and determining if it's as a result of my actions. I would say that her text behaviour (I know don't use it but it was last week!) has noticeably changed though since those messages.

Of course it could also be that the OM is now living with her (as a lodger ... ahem) so she doesn't need my plate anymore. They all happened around the same time.

It matters not. Believe nothing of what they say and only 50% of what they do. I have my plan and my 'nads back (thanks PDT!) and that's starting to work for me.