I have stopped DB. I am just now focusing on myself and my children. I am tired of the games. Sunday night he wants me to sleep on the couch with him so I do. He says things like you know me like no one else...I did not respond then I hear nobody loves me...and he asked what are we doing and I said I dont know what do you want to do..same old questions..I then went to bed after he fell asleep. The next morning he comes into my room and tries to ML I said unless you put your ring on and be a H I do not want to ML. He refused. So I said then you need to get your stuff and leave..he was MAD!!!! Oh well..On Saturday, I ended up leaving my house with the kids because we went to a halloween event I forgot my wallet he was MAD..we were only 2 mins. away from our house, he said I am not going, got 2 more beers and went home, I left without him, normally I would have come back. When I got home 2 hours later in front of my 5 year old D he said we need to talk about me leaving tomorrow, I said I am putting D to bed...I put her to bed and I said fine that is your choice and I am sorry you feel that way..he proceeded to want to cuddle. He was mad bc I left him there..he is really starting to affect my D with all his leaving BS and bad behavior in front of her. I am tired of the games. I am a good wife and I am doing my part. How much longer should I put up with someone who may or may not want to be with me? THis is NOT about me anymore! This is about HIM and how he feels!