thanks for the ideas but im not one for revenge like that lol...i think it all happens on its own, the whole "what goes around comes around" theory...look at how psycho mistress basically got herself in trouble! i did nothing at all to provoke her and she flipped on her own and gave me enough evidence to nail her for it!

in fact, im more of the kill'em with kindness..i even let h come in the other day when son wanted him to, i am nothing but polite, i think when im nice, it makes it harder for him to be mean and makes him wonder why he is so bitter towards me when in fact we all know i never did anything to him!

tomorrow is his 30th birthday, today is the anniversary of when we got engaged. so sad but really im fine.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09