It does sound childish, doesn't it? Well, she called three times last night. First time, I was in the shower. Second time, I told her I was helping my daughter with her school work and needed to go. I was maybe on the phone for a minute and then she called back after I went to bed. She asked why I didn't call her back. I told her that I was tired and didn't feel like it. She said, "oh, I got the picture" and hung up.

I'll point out again for those of you following along and having difficulty detaching. It took me a long, long time to do so but it is very effective and seems to put you in control of the sitch more so. I'm no expert but it also makes you feel better emotionally.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!