The seasons are changing Cas - and so are our H's!!!!
Ditto JCJ - what is the worse that can happen?? I so like that H is there for D with her troubles - more important than any of the rest of this as I am sure that you will agree.
How about inviting H for a birthday picnic on the beach - a family event and maybe some volleyball for them whilst you watch on (not up to it yet, I know). That way, H would be interacting with the kids directly but you would be involved - albeit from the sidelines ... ?? Depending on how things go, it could turn in to an evening barbie back at yours ... ??
Start laying down the seeds ..... and then feed them!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"