Guys thank you for all your input. Your words and support have been really great.
Yes, I have regrets for my role in the distance in our R. Yeah, I'm an engineer, Ket... Hm.
Well, it's done. Not a lot of drama. Short. W was cooking dinner when I got home, I asked her to speak privately. Sat down and said, this is the last moment, if there's anthing you want to say now.
She said, I don't understand.
I handed her the printout, and she read it. Didn't really react, just said "where did you get this?"
I said, "I know you've lied to me repeatedly about seeing (guy's name). And I want to give this back to you" and handed her my wedding ring.
And I said "I'd appreciate it if you moved out as soon as possible. I'm done." Then I got up and left.
She sought me out a litte later and said, "I'm sorry."
I said "That's not good enough." and she said "I know"
I said, "you lied to me. You lied to me on the phone when you were going to see him, told me that you wouldn't do anything to hurt me, that you hold me in such high regard. What is that? Are you the woman I married?"
She shook her head no.
I said, "I don't love you. I want you to get out."
She left to go to the movies with her friend, like she does on Tuesday nights.
