Wife says she wants me to move on

[brknheart]

crossroads, I here ya, its just I dont want to make the wrong decision. My wife is VERY set in her ways, especially when she makes a decision she doesnt want to change it. She says she cant take me back because it "took alot for me to get to this point". Part of me feels that if I dont do anything with her and talk with her much, she will just move on, which she wants to do. It seemed to make her worse. She would come by the house to pick something up and she would look and talk to me like I was just some guy on the street. One of the other things she has a big problem with is that she felt everything had to be my way in the marriage. She said the only thing she can give me right now is to spend some time, dinner or lunch, maybe a movie, just as friends. Would given her the power to make the decision now help things? She may be doing this out of pity. Deep down I feeling that if I let her go and move on, she is never coming back. Ive already thought about what I will do when I move on. One of the options I have to start making plans next month, 3 mths into separation. This would mean I would be moving all of my stuff out in late December, early January. I wish there was a way I could just switch the love and care I have for her off, this would make things alot easier for me...