New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

I called the boys tonight, part of plan to talk to them more regularly than before. When I called, the phone picked up immediately and the boys were on the other line...I guess my W got my voicemail. It was great hearing the boys'voices. I miss them terribly.

After I was done talking with the boys, I asked my S12 to let me talk to my W briefly. She took the call and I just asked her how she was doing with her health, school. She didn't really say too much other than yes, no, ok. When I asked her how school was going she elaborated a bit, but that was it. Then I ended the conversation and she said she also needed to get the boys ready to go to bed. She said bye, and so did I.
One thing: She didn't bring up the issue of divorce.

I don't know if this was a DB faux-pas, by asking to talk with my W. She sounded guarded and cautious. I just sounded
"as if". Anyway, DB/DR says somewhere to try and see what works, test the waters a bit. I believe that's what I did tonight.

Anyway...so much for that.

JR