I'm new wondering if this works...

[Dia]

Hope - DB is for run of the mill troubled marriages. DB will not fix an abuser. It is NOT your fault that your H behaves the way he does. Blaming the victim (you) is a classic ploy to deflect blame from himself.

When you find yourself in an abusive relationship, you protect yourself and your child, and if that means leaving and divorcing, so be it.

Remember - no matter what he says, this is not about you!