W wants to separate

[Kemper]

I struggle with the same types of issues that you do NAGL. I know it is hard but the one thing I keep telling myself over and over is "I can only control myself and my actions".

It isn't always easy esp. with me being co-dependent. That is my main goal right now which is to focus on me and not to worry about pissing her off, what she is doing. I am also working on making myself happy but it is a wild ride.

I feel for you but I am really glad to hear that you guys are staying in the same house and going to MC together.