Trusting yourself is one of the most important things a man can do. Trusting yourself to make the right decisions, even in the worst situations you're going to be ok, believe that you can count on yourself in anything.
Robx, I won't quote the whole thing since it's very long but that post was damn good!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac