Doing "fine" with the detaching. Have a slight cold. I need to focus more on GAL but I went out Sat and Sun. I should start writing. I removed pics of W from cell and put up any reminders of her.

Anyway, last night during the nightly call to Ds W had them call me. Neither D wanted to talk much and I didn't feel well, so when D13 was more interested in playing a video game than talk to me I let it go and said goodnight.

W calls me back to apologize for D13 being rude so I said it was no big deal. She also informs me about a guy "friend" about whom I had assumed there was a budding romantic relationship. She said he had been getting the wrong idea and he had gotten very possessive. They had had a big fight and were no longer friends. I said I was sorry that it turned out badly but didn't offer any other opinions. I kept my tone neutral and ended the conversation politely.

Why would she make a big deal out of this to me? She emphasized that their friendship was over and I wouldn't have to worry about him anymore. It's kind of odd, like she was expecting something from me.


~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)