Hey, Bill. I agree with what robx has said. But you need to say what you feel is right of course. I think you are a lot like I used to be, my regret is that I let my X walk all over me the 5 months I lived with him while he had a PA. It destroyed my PMA and self-esteem.
I think you can be loving, strong, and firm. I'm still a loving person, but I try not to let people walk over me. I agree you should be quietly assertive, not aggressive or witchy in any way.
You have my full support. Seeing the C is a good idea too.
We're all preoccupied with things feeling right before doing something.
In fact we let those feelings guide our decisions when we should be leading those decisions with our minds, not our feelings.
