Hey, Bill. I agree with what robx has said. But you need to say what you feel is right of course. I think you are a lot like I used to be, my regret is that I let my X walk all over me the 5 months I lived with him while he had a PA. It destroyed my PMA and self-esteem.
I think you can be loving, strong, and firm. I'm still a loving person, but I try not to let people walk over me. I agree you should be quietly assertive, not aggressive or witchy in any way.
You have my full support. Seeing the C is a good idea too.
