I agree. I wouldn't even consider dating her until you both go to couple counseling for at least 6 mons. If you want to throw in a date night after your session to talk about what you learned then great. You will then know how serious she is about WORKING on your R and M.
That's not going to happen. She wouldn't agree to that and I'm willing to wait that long. I think my proposal is a fair compromise. We go out on a few dates to see if there's something worth saving and that we both are committed to making it work. If it's not felt mutually, then what's the point? She is unwilling to even let it get that far apparently though as she's already setting prerequisites for dating. You must meet this wicket before I will consider going out with you. Yeah, ok.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
