You've got some heavy hitter here for affair-busting, manning up, detachment and LRT. Listen to them.
I am better at stuff like giving a female or WAW viewpoint, getting inside your W's head, and with ideas to bring the two of you closer when/if you get there.
I would be more than happy to answer questions for you if you have any, but I don't see a need to repeat what's already been said so far.
Let me know if you need me!
Cheers,
Dia
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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