Ok, made it through the cross country meet. Sat across from her on another bench. After about 40 minutes she came over and sat next to me. I continued to carry on a conversation with the people next to me but really did not give her the time of the day. Then she tells the kids that she can't make dinner with them. She has other plans. Ok with me, but s10 was hurt. He kept asking where she ws going but she would not say. I know however that she had made plans to go to some event with another male friend (this is NOT an OM, jsut a friend.) Now why she could not be honest is beyond me.
Robx, your post was excellent. A lot to work on there. Some things I can control, others may have some legal ramifications so I need to be somewhat careful. However, I think the bottom line is to continue to take control of the situation away from her. I cant let her continue to hurt the boys - or me for that matter.
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
