He may serve me and blindside me but that isn't something I would normally do.
Step out of the normal. Stop playing nice with him. What is the point really?
Having him served is above board. You gave him every opportunity to get the danged thing notarized.
As far as the walzing into your house without knocking, calling, waiting at the open door to be invited in....BOUNDARIES. You read Boundaries in M. Have you read just BOUNDARIES? That man doesn't have any. I wonder how he would feel if he had his stupid house fixed finally and was having a quiet evening at home and you just opened the door and walked in like you belong there. Pose that to him BBJ. See what he says. He has no business in your house without your specific invitation. Make it known to him. Let him know what the consequences are if he violates it.
If you truly don't want a D, then just let the whole thing drop. Keep in mind though that you are giving him permission to continue to disrespect you while you spin in the wind 'waiting'. For what, I don't know. Dan isn't going to change without massive amounts of IC and it doesn't look like he's inclined to do that.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!